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I’ve been in a relationship too long. I don’t know how to casually date anymore. Not that I ever really did.
A guy messaged me online and we started talking on Kakao on New Years Day. He’s taller than me, ripped to shreds, older, and very very sweet. Speaks practically perfect English. Wants to meet for a date. I agreed to visit him in Seoul on the 20th (after a much anticipated payday).
Today I realize that is the weekend before Seollal, aka the weekend Mankid, my NYE catch, mentioned he would be back in the Bu’ to visit his fam (he works and lives solo about 3 hours away). I don’t want to message him and be too eager to make plans but if I try to make sure I can meet them both on separate weekends I’m afraid I’ll end up with nothing.
What would a baller do?
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JanI met a boy…
Well he’s technically an 오빠… but was so tres adorable that, with the help of FNWL, I shall call him Mankid. All the wonderful manliness of a man, plus the goofy, smiley sweetness of a 동생.
Every time I picture him sitting in his underwear on my bed, eating the breakfast I made him, bedhead hair all tousled… I can’t help but feel a bit giddy inside. Or when we were watching TV and he curled up into a little ball and put his head on my lap. Swoon.
I’m not sure where this will go and I am trying not to get my hopes up, but he’s just added me to Kakao and I almost skipped like a school girl around my gym.
I usually have no game and don’t often get the hot namjas, however someone somewhere must’ve decided my 2012 needed a well dressed, well mannered, well… amazing kick start! THANK YOU!
Twas a very happy new year indeed!
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To the tall pajama-clad hipster with full body tattoos who joined me in my elevator at 8am this morning to take out his trash:
- THANK YOU
- Who are you and what is your story?
- I’m sorry that our shared time together was most certainly not as glorious for you as it was for me at ridiculous o’clock this morning when I had literally just rolled out of bed
- Same time tomorrow? I promise to brush my hair next time…
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Dec“It’s Christmas and it’s free!”
Logic behind Sunday night clubbing that, in the harsh reality only available during winter intensive schedules, seems significantly less logical.
My Christmas miracle: Morning Care
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DecThank you for all the recommendations. I ended up popping into a chemist on my way into work one morning and buying a tube of Chapstick ‘True Shimmer’ in Botanical Berry flavour for about three thousand won to tie me over the few days till I decided what proper lip-care thing I was going to…
Watch as I deftly leap on this! Any good recs for deep conditioning products for my newly dyed hair… apologies if people covered this before I got the dye :/
I definitely recommend L’Oreal EverPure Color Care shampoo and conditioner. I use the one in the pink bottle as well as their deep conditioner every now and then. You can buy it at Olive Young for about 10,000 won each. It might seem expensive but it is the best I have found to moisturize and prevent fading.
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DecI feel yah Malia, I feel yah.
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DecPisces (February 20-March 20)
You are being financially responsible and accountable lately — what a great change! Expect some old loves to show up throughout the holidays.
Huh. Mysterious past luvah… 누구야~?
Hopefully it isn’t the ex from home who has recently changed his original “Meh… Asia isn’t my thing. Let’s break up” stance and is now asking for coming-to-Korea-advice.
Santa… help a sister out this year!
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Dec"If you’re gonna have pizza with someone else, what do you have to do? You gotta talk about what you want. Even if you’re going to have the same pizza you always have, you say, ‘We getting the usual?’ Just a check in. And square, round, thick, thin, stuffed crust, pepperoni, stromboli, pineapple — none of those are wrong; variety in the pizza model doesn’t come with judgment. So ideally when the pizza arrives, it smells good, looks good, it’s mouthwatering. Wouldn’t it be great if we had that kind of anticipation before sexual activity, if it stimulated all our senses, not just our genitals but this whole-body experience. And what’s the goal of eating pizza? To be full, to be satisfied. That might be different for different people; it might be different for you on different occasions. Nobody’s like ‘You failed, you didn’t eat the whole pizza.’"
-okay best metaphor
(via leraje)
And you know what? Some people like to share pizza, and some people eat it with just one person, it’s their own special ritual for no one else, or they eat it alone. Some people don’t like pizza and that’s fine too; they’re not somehow missing out on the full experience of eating. Some people eat a lot of pizza and some people rarely eat it and you know what, they eat pizza because they like it, not because they don’t respect themselves. Boys and girls and genderqueers all like or dislike pizza regardless of gender; men don’t spend all their energy getting women to give in and eat pizza with them. Pizza is always an option, something presented, maybe encouraged or discouraged, but never without choice; if someone comes up to you and forces pizza into your face, that’s assault, no one will say “oh well you looked like you were hungry.”
That’s it, pizza is my new favourite metaphor for sex. Too much fun.
(via antithestasia)
Ha. I worked at Pizza Hut for five years.
(via fromnoonawithlove)
Herman Cain? Is that you? kkk
Some like their pizza Hot n’ Ready. (I worked at Little Caesars)
(Source: folkthepainaway, via fromnoonawithlove-deactivated20)
Ajumma's lock up your first-borns... and the young'uns too just to be safe.
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mmmmm, yummy breakfast. Fage and honey~
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A hell of a lot of work, but that is what I call a holiday well spent.
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Anonymous asked: it seems like you don't like being in korea very much, and i feel like it's like that for a lot of expats living in korea. do you agree or disagree?
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